The 4 Change Laws
Do You Have The 4 Change Laws?
It might sound crazy, but there are 4 laws to change. For the better or for worse, these laws can build you up into a wonderful life, or demolish you through a downward spiral. It’s up to you to decide where you’ll be heading, and it’s up to me to give you the details so you can make the best choices and begin building a bright future instead of a stress-filled experience.
- You have to believe that you have what it takes to change. Sounds simple, but may be the hardest part of change. Even thinking about it is hard for many. How do you overcome this? By thinking about change. Just do it, over and over again. And again. And again until you’re pressuring yourself every second of the day that it’s time to do something about it. An example crowds constantly enjoy is when I mix in my speech these two questions into a seminar of life success: “Are you going to complain? Or are you going to complain and think of the solution and do something about it?”
- When you talk to yourself about the solution long enough to believe it’s a real possibility- you’ve lifted your potential. For the past year I’ve been working privately with people who were on the last hope in a better life, and they had everything to live a life of their dreams. The only problem was that they didn’t see the potential in themselves, they literally put a lid; a locked door; hid away chances; just stayed still. By helping others see the real chances in life and then having them think a better life was possible, I was able to lift their lid, and they filled the gap. They became who they were meant to be, one lid lift at a time.
- Just like action movies. Seriously. Think about it! I’m not even joking here!!! When we take action to change for the better, don’t we feel powerful? Even hear our most favorite songs in the background? Doesn’t everything seem to amplify itself? Friendships get closer, choices get bigger, opportunities find you instead of “waiting for it,”? That’s the truth. When you take action, you create a movie-like lifestyle.
- The results and rewards. The “final” step that is actually a refueling station. When you take action, what happens? You get a reaction. You do something, you get something in return. Maybe you applied to my Mentorship, got accepted, started training, and BAM! Promoted in 2 weeks. You see, you get out of life what you put in. What does this do? Refuels your belief! You got a reaction and now you tell yourself, “You know what? I can do MORE. I can BE MORE!!” Then you lift your own lid of potential, grow as a person, and take more action! That creates results, and guess what? You’re now loving life because it’s an upward climb every single day. Lovely 😀
Want to know the downward spiral of these 4 steps? Easy- Instead of thinking about the solution in step 1, think about doing nothing OR doing something that is only going to make the complaining worse. You’ll be able to figure out the 3 other steps. Oh, and don’t worry- we can all change. I myself had to slow down my life and really think about where I wanted my life to go. You see, if someone is heading toward disaster, they don’t need negative reinforcement to speed up the process. They need to slow down, and think about where they are headed. The rest is depends on the outcome. Have a lovely Tuesday.
