New Home
The time has come, I finally own a home. This might sound crazy, and I myself have a hard time believing it. I’m not going to lie, I share it with my beautiful girlfriend. Through much of our history dating, we have seen some rough times, great times, arguments, and mature conversations about our future. Moving together into a home- as marvelous the sound of it, it has a LOT of work to do.
Unlike most blogs, I’m going to go into how moving together with someone has a big piece to do with Career path. It might seem obvious, but if you don’t agree with how you’re going to have the finances to afford the home, bills, dishes, detergent, FOOD, children, and/or pets- you’re going to have a difficult time staying together. It’s been less than a week, and both of us have had to take huge breaths of fresh air. Here are some great tips we have come up together to help anyone owning/running a business, college students who are planning on an apartment or home, and future home owners:
Remember, Your First Home Is Difficult- Not my usual happy tip, huh? But we need to be grown up about this. It is very rare that both sides of a couple’s family will help move everything from one home to another, especially with big equipment. For me, my home office equipment is heavy, delicate, and expensive- not many people want to be at fault if an accident happens, and I understand. The physical toll moving into a new home takes is beyond any workout as it takes DAYS to make an entire move from one city to another.
Cook For Each Other- The couple who can cook together, stays together. Food, scientifically prove, will release endorphins; the “feel good” chemical in our body. It’s similar to the feeling when you hug someone you care about, or eat a chocolate bar. At the end of fourth, fifth, or beyond day of moving in and moving around furniture, you WILL lose your appetite. Do NOT skip dinner. Dinner two or more hours before bedtime, so have that as your peace-maker if you fought over where the couch should be placed. Trust me on this, be a good chef if you’re the man of the house. No modern woman will tolerate a cheap meal for moving hundreds of pounds of furniture for you.
Become Efficient In Your Business- The great thing about the Mentorship I am hosting is that it is focused on a 7 to 12 hour workweek. Many people believe that a 40 hour workweek is the only way to attain a full-time income. I am here today to let you know that it is not true. By owning your own business with the proper knowledge, you don’t need to work past 12 hours a week. Any more, you forget the reason to own a business- to be free and have time for what really matters. Two amazing Members got approved in the application process and have been accepted into my Mentorship. This did not interfere with moving to a new home, and it is a blessing to not have to worry about finances while moving in. Too many times, people want a house and end up being chained to debt. I teach the opposite- be free when you choose to own something of that magnitude, it has helped us, and has the potential to help you.
If You Don’t Have Children, Get A Pet- I heard about this a few months ago. I thought, “What’s the point! A pet isn’t a child, you don’t even need to take care of it, just feed the animal!” I as SO WRONG. Our new kitten, Mittens, is an attention hog. It is something new to be working on homework or projects while having the cat biting our feet, tearing at the furniture, or pooping all over the place to catch our attention. It is safe to say- taking care of a pet is easier than a human baby, but if you’re not able to take care of a pet, you’re nowhere ready to take care of a child. Going into three days of having Mittens, I have learned, again, that I personally have not earned my right to raise a child yet. Nor will I have a child until I am married. But having a pet puts a HUGE responsibility that I didn’t even know of. If you do have children, put them first. The last thing children want when they move into a new house is tension- they instinctively do not like moving to a new place, and fighting amongst the parents only makes things worse.
Jeez! I could write forever on this, but I won’t. I’ll leave it at this and ask for forgiveness for the lack of a Motivational Monday Video. To be honest, there is STILL no internet in our home due to the location, and this blog was updated through my smartphone. Knowledge is power, maturity, and health- so I hope this blog helps you out and if you have any questions, I’m here to help 🙂
With Your Health and Success In Mind,
Coach Peter Hanz
